How to approach a girl and get her number

Meeting new people and being friends with them is the scariest thing for many people especially boys who find it really hard to approach girls. The easiest ways to approach a girl is to have a friend who introduces you to her. It’s easier to talk to them further because you already have a connection before. But still, some people have this fear of being rejected or saying something stupid to a girl. However, if you don’t have a friend who can introduce you to a girl, you should keep some tips in mind and approach them the right way, there are chances you will be successful in getting her number. The very first thing you can do is to practice and visualize yourself talking to a girl and you are successful in getting her number, this will increase your confidence level. Secondly, you need to identify what interests her. If you will pay attention to her daily activities, like where she goes and what she does. It will be easier for you to start a conversation with her on a common topic which interests you and her as well. It will protect you from a blank conversation, it’s important to know her interests for a fruitful and healthy conversation. While approaching a girl for the first time, make it a rule not to approach them with a pick up line. Girls hate pick up lines and it comes as an awful way of approaching them and most of the times you will get rejected from a girl. You should always approach a girl in a very subtle and calm manner, don’t try to hit on them in an impatient manner. Be causal in your approach; don’t act like an overexcited dude. Ones you start talking to her make sure you listen carefully to whatever she says, girls like to be acknowledged. Take interest in her answers and talk more about the ongoing conversation topic and at a point where you feel she is enjoying talking to you, you can introduce yourself and chances are that she will introduce herself too.

Be consistent with your conversation with a little attitude and make sure you stay relaxed so that she can feel relaxed and comfortable talking to you too. Don’t do anything in hurry, always take a lot of time in building correct manners and building the right attitude, if possible, you can also try doing it in front of mirror. You need to build your sense of being presentable and improve your self-esteem. During the whole process, make sure you smile and make her feel that you are happy talking to her. At a certain point where you think things are going well and you enjoy talking to each other, you can ask for her phone number. You should always say that you really enjoyed talking to her and you would definitely like to talk to her again. If do all this smoothly in a cool, relaxed way there are maximum chances that she will give her number to you and make sure you have something handy to save her number!